Rabbi Alan Yuter is Mara D'Atra of Baltimore's downtown Orthodox synagogue.
With the exception of Orthodox Jews whose background and heritage traces to Eastern Europe, observant males wear the tallit, or prayer shawl, upon reaching their religious majority, after reaching the age of thirteen years and one day.
After asking teens to wear the tallit upon reaching religious majority, I was told
• it is not our family tradition. The father comes to the synagogue with a hat, the children wear suits and no tallit. [tallis in their pronunciation of Hebrew]
• we do not want to be different
• my parents object and I am required to honor their requests